Never Let Go?

His name is Barry, and he has somewhat of an obsession.

It has to do with socks.

He doesn’t search his surroundings for them, but if he chances upon a sock, it’s as if he’s discovered a lost puppy that must be protected at all costs. His focus becomes consuming. It’s such an overwhelming thing for him that he forgets to eat, and he panics if he can’t see it. He owns that sock in a very human way.

Stress in a tiny dog isn’t fun. If the sock is taken from him, it takes him time to settle down and decompress. He belongs to my sister-in-law, who has very adult conversations with him. She actually wrote a poem about his issues:

“My Shih Tzu loves a sock, and guards it with ferocity, then cries from fear it will be taken. Rejecting sockless freedom, he owns the pain of ownership.”

My sister-in-law is a very wise woman. She sees in her dog the challenge he has in holding possessions too dearly.

Barry shines a mirror on the reality of how many of us choose to deal with possessions.

We all struggle with having things that we can’t seem to do without. Possessions can grab hold of us, holding us captive to things without any return. Too often, when we have some, we only want more. And when we have more, we’re worried it might be taken from us.

Our possessions don’t define us. Our character does.

Jesus told the story of a man who was quite rich, with fertile fields that produced abundant crops. But he felt his barns were too small to store all his harvest. As he pondered, he came up with a solution.

“I know! I’ll tear down my barns and build bigger ones. Then I’ll have room enough to store all my wheat and other goods. And I’ll sit back and say to myself, ‘My friend, you have enough stored away for years to come. Now take it easy! Eat, drink, and be merry!’ But God said to him, ‘You fool! You will die this very night. Then who will get everything you worked for?” Luke 12:18-20

Jesus went on to explain that we are so much more than what we have. He pointed to the beauty of flowers and how they never need to worry about what to wear. The birds of the sky don’t worry about what they’ll eat, but God provides them plenty of food. If he cares for flowers and birds so much, won’t He provide for us what we NEED? He already knows what we need, and He loves us generously. Fear of not having enough of what we want or believe we need dominates the thoughts of people everywhere. God’s solution?

“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and He will give you everything you need.” Luke 12:31.

Barry focuses on his sock because, in his mind, he needs it, even though he can’t explain why. We often believe we must have certain things, even though we’re not sure why–maybe it’s just because someone else has it.

Seeking God in His wisdom, enjoying His presence, provides us with our sufficiency in Him. No need to fear what we have or don’t have. Being satisfied with what we’re given is a gift in itself.

No puppy stress required.

14 responses to “Never Let Go?”

  1. We have a sock stealer also – such strange behavior. Nothing else…just socks?!?

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    1. Yup. Barry is prone to socks alone. It is strange. And he doesn’t go looking for them–it’s only if one is right in front of him that he becomes obsessive.

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  2. Jesus asked the Romans to give up their material belongings to follow him – they chose to crucify the Lord rather than give up their cozy lifestyle.

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    1. We tend to become comfortable with what is familiar. Stuff and clutter becomes something we cling to because we see what we think we value. You are so right, my friend.

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  3. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    We had a dog that looked just like Barry. We named him Gizmo. He was such a joy. He knew the exact sound of a Kraft cheese wrapper opening. The second that plastic tore, he’d start jumping, whining, and breathing all heavy. I’d give him pieces and he wouldn’t even chew just swallowed them whole 😂😂

    Barry and his sock made me smile. It’s funny, but it’s also so true. We can get attached to things the same way. Holding on tight, stressing over losing them.

    I love the reminder that our stuff doesn’t define us. God provides what we need, and real peace comes from trusting Him, not from guarding our socks.

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    1. After all, isn’t all our stuff and clutter little more than socks? I can imagine your Gizmo–Barry is a bundle of fun until sock time, when he becomes a bundle of nerves. That truly amazes me.

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      1. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
        Willie Torres Jr.

        🤗🤗

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  4. Dogs and cats deem every apparel part, once worn by their caretakers, as part of their caretakers’ bodies. They feel it to be their sacred duty to protect these parts at all cost. Hence the stress, methinks…

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    1. Brilliant deduction, my friend. You obviously have a deep sense of love for animals. We haven’t had a pet for years–my husband is a bit pet-averse.

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      1. We have a cat who has lived with us ever since my sons brought him home as a tiny kitten. Mom and I agreed to let him stay on the condition that the boys would take responsibility for bathing him regularly and cleaning his litter box.

        He has since grown into a rather stately creature, something like a bulldog in cat’s fur. One of his preferred duties is guarding my house slippers by lying on them, thereby rendering them temporarily unusable. To release them, he accepts payment in the form of being lifted onto my lap and cuddled for a while. Once the tribute has been paid, he departs, and my slippers are returned to service.

        Nowadays, I am actually glad we have him. Bathing him has become part of the boys’ regular routine, one they accept without much complaint. As a parent, I find this quietly satisfying. I have come to believe that such duties are a useful form of character-building — unless future life proves me wrong.

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  5. You have such a fascinating way of expressing yourself! I love the idea of washing the cat (does that really need to happen–they don’t clean themselves?) is character-building. Responsibility isn’t something highly valued culturally anywhere in the world. And here you’re doing it, one kitty at a time. Even funnier is the bulldog in cat’s fur. I can’t unsee that.

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    1. I agree that cats are perfectly capable of cleaning themselves. However, as cohabiting animals, they are subject to somewhat higher hygiene standards, given their fondness for occupying human-dedicated horizontal surfaces such as chairs, sofas, couches, and occasionally beds.

      Somehow, over the years, we have all come to treat him as a full-fledged member of the family, albeit one of rather limited eloquence. The synergy between him and us has become remarkably strong. He reacts appropriately and predictably to many situations, almost as if he were reading our thoughts. Whether this is intelligence, observation, or simply the result of years spent studying our habits, I cannot say.

      As for my parenting strategy, my principal objectives have always been to instill seriousness, reliability, and a sense of responsibility in my sons. At times I find myself frustrated, wondering whether I am succeeding in this endeavor. Yet Mom is quick to remind me that life requires another skill as well: the ability not to take everything too seriously all the time.

      On this point, I suspect she may be wiser than I am.

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      1. I love how you think!

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