Is There Ever Enough?

When they were growing up, my kids loved stuffed animals. The bigger, the better. We have a huge elephant now that we’ve had for over a decade, and it’s still a beloved place to lie down and nap.

Or just pretend to nap.

Kolly loves her “stuffies” so much that at any chance she gets a new one, she jumps on it with joy and speed. Stuffies fill her room, flow over into the playroom, and even have residence in her little sister’s room.

We all collect something. For many, it’s something tangible. I collected small model horses as a kid. I desperately wanted to own a horse of my own; we lived in a Chicago suburb, which made it impossible to keep one in our backyard. That, and my folks would never allow it.

I have friends who collect golf balls, Precious Moments figurines, and Pokémon cards. Others collect coins, stamps, art, and antiques. But others collect memories, experiences, journeys. There are many reasons for acquiring more of something: it brings us joy, it provides a sense of accomplishment, or it creates a sense of security for what a collection could provide us in the future.

The focus on accumulating can get us into trouble. Never being satisfied with what we have can make us anxious, greedy, or overly protective of things or money. When we do that, we lose sight of what’s really important.

Jesus told a story of a rich man who had a fertile farm that produced bountiful crops. He was quite pleased with what he had, but he worried because he didn’t think he had room to store all his crops.

He decided to tear down all his barns and build bigger ones so there would be enough room for his entire harvest. “And I’ll sit back and say to myself, ‘My friend, you have enough stored away for years to come. Now take it easy! Eat, drink, and be merry!’” Luke 12:19

But like all of us, this man had no idea what tomorrow would bring.

“But God said, ‘You fool! You will die this very night. Then who will get everything you worked for?’ Yes, a person is a fool to store up earthly wealth but not have a rich relationship with God.” Luke 12:20-21.

The amassing of anything, be it wealth, investments, real estate, businesses, or cherished items, can control us through our concern for its protection, our fear of losing it, or the anxiety that comes from thinking it isn’t enough.

Kolly will someday lose interest in her stuffies. As she grows up, she will develop interests in big-girl things, like music, clothes, and friends.

Earthly wealth and belongings don’t provide comfort, encouragement, or purpose. Those qualities can only be found in relationships.

Permanent comfort, encouragement, and purpose can be guaranteed in a relationship with Jesus. What He offers is eternity of peace without pain. “For Christ Himself has brought peace to us.” Ephesians 2:14.

What matters most to us determines who we will become. What we value reflects who we are.

What do you collect?

7 responses to “Is There Ever Enough?”

  1. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    She is so precious… God Bless Her…

    What we treasure here will pass, but what we build with Jesus lasts forever.

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    1. I’m rather biased, my friend. She’s a true hoot and a holler.

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  2. It’s tricky – even as an adult I like things that come in collections; it makes me happy to see sets of matching things on the shelf – but I also agree that amassing things is not helpful in the long term. Great post as always – lots to think about! Linda xx

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    1. Again, you’re right. Collections indicate order, and there’s something satisfying about the little things we can impose order on. But I’m like that pendulum that swings from one far side to the other. Finding that middle ground is hard.

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      1. OK interesting – I think you’re right about the to-and-fro…. I’m in maximalism and minimalist stage (depending on whether it’s my stuff or the kids!!)

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  3. This really made me think, Dayle. I love how you used something as simple and innocent as Kolly’s collection of stuffies to lead into such an important truth about what we value and where we find our security.

    As a child, I used to collect model cars, and I suppose in some ways I haven’t changed that much! As a Christian adult, I have quite a few guitars and probably more effects pedals than I really need, but I often find myself asking a different question now: “How can I use this to worship God?”

    I think that’s the difference. It’s not necessarily about whether we own things or even enjoy collecting them, but about what place those things have in our hearts. A guitar can simply be another possession, or it can become a tool for worship, creativity and sharing something God has given me with others.

    Your reminder about the man building bigger barns really hits home. There will always be another guitar, another pedal, another thing we think might make us happy. But none of it can compare with what we already have in Christ.

    These days, I’m trying to see the things I have less as possessions to accumulate and more as gifts to steward and use for God’s glory. That’s a much better kind of “collection.” Great post Dayle! 😀

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    1. You’re collecting guitars and pedals to bring glory to God. I get that it can get overused, and we lose focus. That’s our humanity; there’s a fine line between collecting because it means something to us, and collecting because it can mean something to the Lord. He gifts us in unique ways to bring glory to His name. It’s all about perspective. Even my model horses were a silent demand for the real thing.

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