Who Should I Ask?

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I can’t pick out a decent watermelon to save my hide.

For years, I’ve been told that you thump the melon and listen for a hollow sound. So I thump away, each and every watermelon.

I have no idea what hollow sounds like. I could literally play a drum solo with the way I thump those melons.

My inability to determine whether a watermelon is ripe and ready to eat can mean getting a melon that’s pithy or overly ripe. Once you cut into it, you can tell if it’s worth eating.

I’ve also heard that you can look for the yellow spot on the side. It must be a certain shade; I’m also unsure of the color. I’ve rolled these melons to check the yellow spots and have discovered that every one of them appears to be similar. How do I choose?

I finally gave up.

I did what I should have done to begin with. I asked one of the folks working in produce which watermelon would be good. My question was, “If you were picking out a melon for your family, which would you pick?”

He glanced quickly over the huge box of possibilities, picked one up, without thumping or checking yellow spots, and handed it to me. “This is a good one.”

He was right.

I don’t always want to ask for help when I need it. I’m quick to convince myself that I can figure it out. I also am not great at reading instruction books. I’d rather observe the instrument and intuit how to use it.

That rarely brings success.

There’s pride in not asking for help. I don’t want someone to see me as uninformed or incompetent. There’s always a downside to arrogance, however. I might not accomplish what I want to do. There’s no shame in asking for help.

You have to know the right people to ask.

Habakkuk was a prophet in Judah around 600 BC, right before the 597 BC conquest of this nation by Babylon. He was concerned about all the evil taking place in Judah, especially all the idol worship, and questioned by God didn’t do something to intervene. When he understood that God would use Babylon, even more wicked than Judah, he couldn’t understand why God would use someone worse to show truth to His people.

“How long, O LORD, must I call for help? But You do not listen! ‘Violence is everywhere!’ I cry, but You do not come to save. Must I forever see these evil deeds? Why must I watch all this misery? Wherever I look, I see destruction and violence. I’m surrounded by people who love to argue and fight.’” Habakkuk 1:2-3.

He wasn’t just seeking information; Habakkuk was trying to understand what this meant about God’s justice. He was wise in his questions; he didn’t go to someone who might have known God. He asked God Himself.

God answered him.

“The LORD replied, ‘Look around at the nations; look and be amazed! For I am doing something in your own day, something you wouldn’t believe even if someone told you about it.’” Habakkuk 1:5.

In His response, the Lord said it would be tough to understand. But God gave him an honest answer. He revealed a plan that would be hard to understand. Which strengthened his faith.

Asking the right people, especially on issues we don’t understand, such as spiritual questions, can give us insight into what truth is.

Better than thumping a watermelon.

8 responses to “Who Should I Ask?”

  1. I’m not so bad with watermelons, but cantaloupes, honey do, and musk melon ripeness signals elude me. After years of bad choices I switched to buying only cut fruit when I have a melon craving. Expensive but it outweighs the risk but the weight of a good melon. It would be nice if life were like melons with an already opened option but we do have a good guide for figuring out how to judge life, His words in the Bible

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    1. We’re not as cut and dried as melons, but I do know that God knows it all, and listening to Him is always my best course of action. My problem is a complete and total lack of patience, waiting for Him to answer. His truth is so full. And I get the purchase of cut fruit; smart man, my friend.

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      1. Patience can be practiced and improved. So I’ve been told.

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  2. I might have been skeptical of a produce employee who just looked at the melons and said, “This one looks good!” The prophet Habakkuk expressed no skepticism of God’s choice for Judah. Instead he articulated strong faith, even in the face of looming destruction, because he trusted in the One who was doing the choosing. Thank you for the insightful, thought-provoking post, Dayle!

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    1. I might have jumped the gun, but it was a great melon. Habakkuk knew his Lord; he wasn’t afraid to ask questions and wasn’t afraid to push back for answers. I long to have that depth of confidence in the Lord. It’s a journey.

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  3. Wow, I love this post Dayle!

    When you say ‘There’s pride in not asking for help’ rings loudly in my ears. When I was fully sighted in the first 25 years of my life, I did everything myself and was very competent, prideful and fiercely independent. Then going blind at 25 it completely flattened me and if I wanted to do anything…I’d have to ask someone as I was now completely dependent! It took a while to adapt to this new way of doing things but I find it actually blesses me and the other person as they get blessed for helping and feeling useful! It’s quite an example on how I’m totally dependent on Christ…Wow who doesn’t want to depend on the comforter, the one who is Love and will never leave you or forsake you? I won’t ramble on as there are too many things to say, lol. Thanks so much for blessing me again today, God bless you and your family! 🙏 😀

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    1. Your journey has been a fascinating one: going blind at 25, relearning much of what you had become comfortable with, learning to lean into the Lord for His strength when you understood He was not only trustworthy, but so deeply in love with you. Your dependence on Him inspires me, Steve. You don’t complain; you move through with hope and grace and strength and resilience. I appreciate you.

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  4. This is a great blog Dayle. Thank you! I love the example of watermelons–and asking for help and how you related that to Hab. So good. 🙂

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