Gator Gazing

With my little sister in town, we decided to brave Orlando Wetlands for a walk and a little gator gazing.

From a distance.

It was a cold day, so I knew the alligators would be out sunning themselves because their cold-blooded bodies don’t naturally heat up like ours. This was my sister’s third time in the area–her hesitancy was less, but she was cautious, especially if I ventured too far to take a picture.

I’m not a fool. I live here, and I know what gators can do. They don’t zigzag when they run, as people think. They rise up on all fours and move forward at quite a rapid rate. My considerate husband reminded my sister that if a gator approached, she should shove me down first, then run like lightning.

I didn’t appreciate his humor.

The understatement of the sign—”Do not approach, feed, or harass the alligators,” made us both laugh. Wasn’t it common sense to not do any of that? Alligators do have a reputation of being carnivores–we are walking meat to them.

Alligators, however, seem almost dead or at least catatonic when they’re sunning themselves along a body of water. People approach them because they appear harmless. I’ve been to Gator Land and have seen how quick their responses are. Even when appearing inanimate, they can turn and snap at what is perceived as food quicker than anyone realizes.

But alligators don’t kill randomly; unprovoked attacks are rare. They strike when they feel threatened. Their home space–bodies of water–is where they feel competent and capable. I’d never suggest someone swim with gators–that’s sheer foolishness. But walking close to them when they’re on land is something one does with caution but not fear.

We all want to feel competent and capable in our work. We want to live and work in a place that seems made for us, where our skill set matches our job requirements. An alligator demonstrates its skill set every time it opens its mouth; the power of their jaws and sharp teeth are the reminder of what they’re capable of.

What each of us is capable of isn’t always obvious. Appearances don’t always indicate talent. My daughter Melody is a perky little dynamo with an infectious smile and manages to get more done than people give her credit for. My son Mark is an easy-going kind of guy who taught himself how to grow grapes and produce wine. What we’re capable of isn’t apparent with many first impressions.

When the apostle Paul wrote to the church at Corinth, they were struggling with making changes among themselves because their culture was more focused on achievement, power, and fortune. They sought to become genuine followers of Jesus. Paul reminded them that their competency wasn’t a matter of the will but of faith.

“Such is the confidence we have through Christ before God. It is not that we are competent in ourselves to claim anything as coming from ourselves, but our adequacy is from God. He has made us competent to be ministers of a new covenant, not of the letter, but of the Spirt. For the letter kills, but the Spirit gives life.” 2 Corinthians 3:4-6.

Alligators have a competency level I respect; I leave them at peace with a generous distance between us, demonstrating my regard for their sharp teeth and strong jaws.

We’ve each been gifted by God with skills and talents we can use to honor Him and thrive in the process. It may not be obvious what they are in the moment, but our adequacy comes from God, who knows us intimately and loves us with delight. We each have a competency from Him that gives us value greater than we can imagine.

Better than gator gazing.

12 responses to “Gator Gazing”

  1. How true that often our best traits are hidden. He knows what they becuase He blessed us with them are and our worth often lies in making the most of them of we use them as you said, to honor Him.

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    1. One of the many things I enjoy about you is your ability to see or even choose to look past the surface to see what really is there. There’s so much we miss because we “assume”–and we know what that does for individuals!

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      1. Thank you Dayle! You never know what might lie under the surface if you don’t look for it. Except alligators. Those you know are right under the surface!

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  2. Grateful that because He created us in our Mother’s womb He does know both our strengths and our weaknesses. I want to continue to trust Him to use me with both of those things being true. Oh and good job being wise around the gators your sweet family would hate to lose you. Jeanie Ganssle P & C Team Cohorts 1-4 Career Coordinator/Cohort 2 P&C Specialist Guiding missionaries to discover their unique contribution within Cru 203-605-0711 jeanie.ganssle@cru.org

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    1. He knows us thoroughly and loves us completely in our mess–even when our teeth are bared! I want to live all that I am as well. And I’m so glad you responded–I miss your grin!

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  3. Hi Dayle!

    Love this post and I think your sister is much braver than me, lol…Nevermind you and your superhero bravery! 🤣 I love also the teachable moments of this wisdom post, even though I’m still looking for my gifts, lol!

    It looks like I’ll be back as I’ve just set up Sarah’s old Mac for me to use as my super old Mac got too slow and died! I can’t wait to get back on here properly and catch up with you all! 🙏 😀

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    1. I’m glad you’re back in the swing of things! I’ve missed your wisdom and humor. Thanks for your encouraging words. And by the way, I just bought your book! I’m excited to get to read it!

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      1. Hey Dayle!

        I think you’re using your humour here, as I haven’t written a book or have the skills to write one! 🤣 I’m just the blindman from England, uk who loves reading, learning and being edified by you and your family! 🙏 😀

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  4. Fun, and a little scary story. 🙂 However, I’d be up for going gator watching with you. 🙂 Also–loved the point of the story, and the verse you shared. Thank you!

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    1. Anytime you and your family come down here, let us know! You can stay with us, and I’ll introduce you to our long and cold-blooded neighbors!

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  5. Steve, my bad. I have several friends named Steve, all of whom are quite unique and delightful. But I’m still grateful you’re back–I have missed your humor, wisdom, and persistence in conquering the challenges of life. You, my friend, are quite the man of God who moves forward with a zest that many seeing people lack.

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