Community Is Crucial

It was supposed to be a delightful hike through Honey Bee Canyon In Tucson, one that my sisters had walked many times before.

It was a marvelous day for a walk, and the two of them were accompanied by a friend. They maneuvered their way around rocks and the scattering of pebbles all over the dirt as they came to the end of the hike. The path had become narrow and steep, and they offered a couple who had been walking behind them to go ahead because they were moving more quickly.

Because it was a canyon, there were dips and drops that needed to be navigated with care and attention. It became the setting for the perfect storm of the slippery slide.

My twin sister, Gayle, slipped on the pebbles covering much of the ground and dropped about twelve feet to the wash at the bottom of the canyon, her legs and arms covered with road rash, the back of her head covered with rock debris from knocking her head against all the gravel and sand, her body covered with deep cuts and chunks of skin removed because of the fall.

My sister was in a lot of pain, but her circumstances would be worse had the couple who moved ahead of them hadn’t waited when they saw what happened. They helped her get comfortable, the lady putting her backpack under Gayle’s head and getting it soaked with blood. They were the ones to call 911 and engaged in a problem that wasn’t theirs. It takes selflessness to choose to help people you don’t know. It takes compassion to be inconvenienced with no return for your work other than a thank you.

God reminds us that we’re part of a greater community than we realize. One that covers not merely geography, but the whole world.

“So God created human beings in His own image. In the image of God He created them; male and female He created them.” Genesis 1:27

Imago Dei is a unique theological term that applies only to people made in a moral, spiritual, and intellectual likeness to God. It’s all of humanity–we’re all made this way. It’s reflected in His desire to know us personally.

His heart is for us to love one another, to care more deeply for others than always thinking about ourselves.

“Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose. Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.” Philippians 2:2-3

There’s deep joy in treating others with compassion; it’s paying it forward for when we need such care. My sister experienced that beautifully from strangers who put their comfort aside for her hope.

Life is more than selfish ambition and self-promotion. It’s living in unity with others who are different from us, who don’t know us.

Wouldn’t it be grand to be loved just because you’re you?

18 responses to “Community Is Crucial”

  1. Hey Dayle, 

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    1. Martha, is that you? Hey, friend, how’re you doing?

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  2. Oh wow. Your poor sister. 😬 So glad help was near. Also very grateful for community that has cared for me and my family so many times through the years. Community care is truly a gift and a reflection through others of Jesus’ love for us. Great story, – as always – Dayle. 💛

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    1. Oh, Ter, you’re so kind! We all need community around us to be able to sustain life itself. You’ve experienced, and we have, too. It’s how Jesus told us to act–why do we make it so hard? Thanks for your concern, my friend. You’re the best!

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  3. I hope your sister is healed and will be better. It’s a scary thing to fall when you’re away from civilization. She was so fortunate there were civil people close by who took their time to help her. We should all be grateful there are people like them and do our best to follow their example!

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    1. She was fortunate, indeed! I talk to her most days and tell her I wish I could be out there to help. But she has folks there who are treating her like family, loving on her even though she’s stubborn as can be. (I can say that because we’re so much alike!) I’m so grateful she had help. Thanks for your sweet encouraging words.

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  4. Yes, community is everything. Hope your sister is on the mend. You never know what will happen anywhere, anytime. Prayers for you both. ❤️ellen

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    1. El, you are always so kind and considerate of others, how they’re doing, and the bigger picture. Thanks for your compassion and grace. She’s in a world of pain right now, but we’re hopeful. I see and experience you as so gentle and gracious. Thanks, my dear friend. I love you, too.

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      1. Thank you for all the kind things you said to me. I don’t know about me but they are certainly true for you! God bless your sister and you all!🙏🏽

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  5. Yowza. I had to look twice and enlarge the pic before reading to make sure it wasn’t you, but oh, poor dear Gayle. So glad that she wasn’t alone. And glad she is getting continued community care.

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    1. Wowza is right! No, she is in a boatload of pain–bleeding from so many places that it scares me. I wanted to be there, but she’s got our little sister Janet and quite a few friends who have helped. Miss you, Pen. Hope you and Joe and the kids have a great Christmas.

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  6. I just loved this – so very thoughtful and true.

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    1. Thanks, Mags. I appreciate your thoughts.

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  7. I pray God’s blessing upon those compassionate people who helped your sister; I pray for her rapid recovery. (I’m thinking the kindness she received has already contributed!)

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    1. Thanks, Nancy. She’s still really sore, but healing is happening. I’m grateful for those who reached out in compassion. Thanks for your kindness.

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  8. So glad your sister had that couple there to help her. It’s hard when we are not able to be with our loved ones–praying for her and for you!

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    1. Thanks, Katers. Having someone choose to care for us when they aren’t required to or feel compelled because of necessity. We’re grateful she had someone to help her.

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