What Goes Around

I’ve been the observer of culture long enough to know that there is nothing new under the sun.

Solomon said that thousands of years ago.

As a mom, I’ve watched toys cycle through new generations. My Little Ponies were all the rage when my oldest daughter was little in 1987. They faded from the scene only to come back in 2010 for another go-around.

Traditional games, like Monopoly and Parcheesi continue to be popular. Parcheesi became trademarked in 1874.

Just because something is old doesn’t mean it lacks quality.

When my daughter Melody sent a picture of my granddaughter Sloane holding a Tamagotchi, a small electronic pet, I couldn’t help but laugh. The responses from Mel’s siblings held equal hilarity–Courtney joked, “You can never let it die, Mel! This might be more time consuming than an actual pet!”

My girls had these ornery little critter/non-critters when they were growing up. I remember hearing them beep with their neediness when the girls forgot to care for them. They needed food, they’d pooped and need to be cleaned, and they demanded attention.

I’m not saying that everything that comes back around is good.

There are those things in life that keep coming back around. I’m astounded at the number of self-help podcasts and blogs that try to encourage us to do this and you’ll improve in that. Or change your attitude about something and you’ll become a better person.

We need permanent change that can only be accomplished by a power greater than our will or motivations–the power of Almighty God to change us. Because we struggle to make lasting changes for ourselves.

“But I need something more! For if I know the law but still can’t keep it, and if the power of sin within me keeps sabotaging my best intentions, I obviously need help! I realize that I don’t have what it takes. I can will it, but I can’t do it. I decide to do good, but I don’t really do it; I decide not to do bad, but then I do it anyway. My decisions, such as they are, don’t result in actions….The answer, thank God, is that Jesus Christ can and does (help me in my despair).” Romans 7:17-19,25

We’re not all good or all bad, but we all have the capacity to do the wrong things consistently. We can’t be perfect, no matter how hard we try. This is the cycle of sadness and disappointment we live in.

But God. He sees us with love and reaches out to us with compassion and grace. He knows fully who and what we are–and chooses to love us anyway. He’s greater than the worst of our mess.

That love that comes around can’t be beat.

It’s better than an electronic pet.

10 responses to “What Goes Around”

  1. Dear Dayle, another good sermon and your daughter looks so much like you. I appreciate all your prayers and especially when my husband was sick. I really am very thankful to you for appreciating my blog. But I have to tell you something… I am not Christian in the sense you are. I was baptized two different branches of Christianity but my belief system is Hinduism. So sometimes your sermons don’t work for me. Right now I am following a guru and an Indian friend is teaching me. So if I don’t respond it is because I can not. I pray both Christian and Hindu prayers
    and you are on my prayer list but if I don’t respond to a post it is because I cannot. I love Jesus, too. Things are just a little different for me.

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    1. Oh, my dear El, you’re a friend above all else. Someone I value and appreciate. You don’t have to believe like me for me to care for you as a friend. That won’t change. Thanks for your honesty–I understand how some things don’t translate to your faith. I still love you like a friend.

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      1. Thank you Dayle. Appreciate your friendship and open mind. 🙏🏽💓

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  2. I always feel good when someone writes, “ Just because something is old doesn’t mean it lacks quality.” 😁 Oh but yes Dayle, you are so right saying we can’t make lasting changes in ourselves by ourselves. Thanks again for that salient reminder.

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    1. We “oldies but goldies” need to stick together and remind each other that we’re only mellowing, not becoming less valuable or diminishing in quality. You are indeed a dear and sweet friend. Thank you.

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      1. Happy to mellow away with whoever wants to join in the ride.

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  3. Amen my friend. God’s love not only continues to come back around. It never even leaves!!

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    1. So true! His love never fails! Something I can easily live by! Thanks, Sheila!

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  4. God’s love is way better than an electronic pet!! LOL (They are here in our house too! 🙂 )

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    1. You fully get it, my friend! Thanks for your kind words!

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