When Doing Doesn’t Do It

It was too hot and muggy to play outside. My sweet husband can’t stand the beach. I was unwilling to stay inside with kids who were more than content on screens.

Fearing I’d be watching them turn into zombies, I needed to come up with somewhere to go and something to do.

Anything.

We ran through several thoughts. One by one, they got shot down by my husband. We needed to take a friend to the airport who’d spent the night with us, so once we dropped her off, I thought outside my box.

We could go to the mall.

You need to know how much I hate shopping. But this mall is huge, one of the largest in the area, with stores I’ve never heard of.

AND an indoor play area.

We wandered around for awhile, overwhelmed by the number of stores and the insane amount of people there. Everyone in central Florida must have shown up to the one place they knew would be cool.

We watched as people came in, dragging suitcases behind them. There are those who come here, especially from other countries, to do some serious shopping.

Not something I could readily imagine myself doing.

With no real desire to buy anything and no heart to window shop, we thought we’d take the kids to the food court for a treat.

The rest of the state of Florida was in that small space.

Leaving seemed the only sane thing to do. As we walked out, we took a picture of the kids with Kirby.

I’m not sure why.

You know it’s busy when cars stalk you as you return to your vehicle, wanting desperately to claim your vacated space.

Life has felt like that mall lately. Busy. Many calls on my attention. Noise wherever I turn. The excess of things can be an inordinate burden on anyone because of the task of keeping it all in order.

And everyone always wants more. More money, space, friends, likes, clothes, experiences.

During the time Jesus lived on earth, there was a great divide between those who were quite comfortable and those who struggled just to feed their families. The Romans overly taxed the Jews, and then there were the temple taxes as well. Greed was an issue as relevant then as it is today.

“Then Jesus said, ‘Beware! Guard against every kind of greed. Life is not measured by how much you own….Yes, a person is a fool to store up earthly wealth but not have a rich relationship with God.’” Luke 12:15, 21

We all are in need of things, but what we need most is a relationship with the One who created us. Stuff and clutter cannot satisfy. It can make us crazy about procuring more things or focusing too much on the care of the things we have.

Instead, we could focus on filling our hearts and minds with the truths of God’s Word, His peace and comfort, His presence.

That’s guaranteed not to turn us into zombies.

6 responses to “When Doing Doesn’t Do It”

  1. Guess it is naive of me, a childless soul, to think of staying home and reading or being read to as an activity. Guess it pales for kids when compared to online stuff. No reading is no longer an option. Yes, greed is a clear and present danger for all of us in the USA. And, thanks for reminding us that the most important thing is our relationship with God. You have made that clear to me in your posts. I will try to abide by it. As for entertainment, sometimes it pays off being a recluse. But it is naive of me to say that when you have to entertain three kids when it is too hot to go outside. I hear the water temps in Florida are of the hot tub variety. Praying for you, dealing with your grief on top of all this.

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  2. You’ve hit on an easier said than done issue for me. I try not to be materialistic but I always find ways to “need” something. I have a friend who is a true minimalist but still wants for little if anything at all. Her spare time and money is spent on retreats and discovery journeys. Somehow when she needs something, He seems to point her in the right direction, a thrift shop, or estate sale and there is exactly what she’s wanted. She trust in Him for her needs and He provides. It can be done.

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    1. You know, Michael, I think one of the hardest things to confront myself with is how little I need of stuff and clutter and more of what will satisfy my soul. Trusting Him with our needs is definitely “easier said than done.” But that’s the journey–to learn with every opportunity I can to let go of what I was never intended to hold onto.

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  3. “We all are in need of things, but what we need most is a relationship with the One who created us. Stuff and clutter cannot satisfy. It can make us crazy about procuring more things or focusing too much on the care of the things we have.”—–This is wisdom, wisdom, wisdom!! Love the pictures you’ve drawn with your stories to make this point!! Thank you!!

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    1. Thanks, Katers. Being old has some advantages!

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