Go Big Or Go…Hey, I’m Already Home!

We have a tradition. An annual event that delights many and serves as a great space of interaction for those with huge people needs–and not so huge.

We host a barbecue for the group of folks I work with. People who’ve done life differently for almost ten months, who have grown in understanding and love for one another. A remarkable group.

Add two massive waterslides, a passel of children, tons of sugary snacks, great barbecue, and you’ve got a party.

This year we added rain.

Not something I asked for; not what I wanted. The one hundred plus people moved their wet selves from the outside to the inside for dinner, fun talk and watching the running of the Kentucky Derby.

Does it get any better?

People were amazed at our tolerance. I actually stepped outside with a few other adults during some of the chaos for quieter conversations and a bit of fresh air. But honestly, this is a house. Our home. Not a place that needs to be enshrined and saved for posterity because of its historical value.

More for its hysterical value.

The best fun of the day was watching the big people go down the waterslides. Barreling down at breakneck speed, causing a huge splash zone that soaked those sitting close by. Kids were awed by parents doing what they hadn’t expected.

Knowing we’d have these slides for two days, John decided to do it big. Have another group of one hundred plus people the next day, the group of folks he’s working with this summer, and do it all over again.

And it rained.

Wet bodies trooped back into the house. Mess increased exponentially.

Conversations were happening all over. With all those folks in the house, it became obvious quickly that our air conditioning wasn’t working as it should.

It quit.

Not part of the plan.

At the end of two days of entertaining, enjoying interactions with a variety of folks I don’t often get to talk to, watching young and old alike swishing down those waterslides, it was a very good weekend.

I’m tired. The house was hot and messy. Much of the outside was brought inside. But it didn’t take away from the value of the time spent. The adventure of doing life in the moment with such a variety of people was a gift.

Life is the great adventure. I’m limited in my understanding of what I know; I’ve no way of knowing what tomorrow will bring. I can plan, provide for what I’d like to see accomplished, but I’m not in control of much more than my attitude.

When the rain falls–and it always will–and plans go awry, my comfort comes from knowing that God knows my yesterdays, todays and all my tomorrows. He knows and values my story; He walks with me in it.

I don’t want to be afraid to risk what’s comfortable to be able to experience the amazing. It’s easy to sit back and do nothing. Pushing myself past my believed limits is freeing. I’m becoming more the person God has made me be.

All that rain? It’s great for growth.

11 responses to “Go Big Or Go…Hey, I’m Already Home!”

  1. Thanks for not only letting us messy folks into your home, but also into your heart. Love you! 💛


    1. Welcome to the Band of Messies! I was so grateful you and Steverino came–I so appreciate and love you both. I see you all and can’t help but smile.


  2. Love this. And you. “More for the hysterical value.” Spot on. I used to call the historical sites hysterical sights. Some were, some not so much. But your house as the party zone is always a fun, warm and welcoming place where people know they are cherished. Ain’t no rain wet enuf to dampen that truth.


    1. Oh, Pen, you’re such a sweet and true friend. Thanks for the encouragement. Will we get to see you and Joe this summer?


      1. Penny Wermer Avatar
        Penny Wermer

        Planning to be there for the Connection Conf…we need to nail down definite plans of when we arrive and leave. Carleen moved from Estes Park to Monument and we want to see them/their new place also.


  3. Loved this beautiful reflection of the tapestry of God’s creative genius! Rain or shine, it’s all glorious! Thanks, Dayle!


    1. You are most kind, my friend. I appreciate you reading. How are you feeling? Are you back up to 100%?


  4. Larry Shoemaker Avatar
    Larry Shoemaker

    Sweet Dayle, it just sounds like another day in John and Dayle Rogers’ paradise! Orlando, Ft. Collins, wherever you land, there is a party about to happen….a fun, kid friendly, full of laughter party!


    1. Love you, Lar. Looking forward to seeing you all soon!


  5. I really needed to read this today. Thank you 😘


    1. I get it. There are some days and some words that just make more sense than anything else at the moment. May you feel blessed by the Lord in your day.


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