When The Party’s Over

People plan, prepare, and anticipate Halloween with great excitement.

And just as quickly, it’s gone. Walking around the neighborhoods, exclaiming “trick or treat” with gusto, gathering candy like it’s a career, and existing on a small but significant sugar high makes it all more fun than any child can imagine.

Until it’s over.

It was a little heartbreaking observing kids watch our neighbors take down their Halloween decorations. All the blow-ups are being put away for another year, and as they withered with the air leaking out, it felt like a little of the kids’ energy leaked out with it.

But Thanksgiving and Christmas are just around the corner, so conversations soon shifted to what kids would do during their vacation times and what they wanted for Christmas.

It’s easy to live for the next big thing. Anticipating fun motivates us when days seem monotonous and time drags mercilessly. Rather than being present in the moment, we allow our hearts to race ahead and miss what’s right in front of us.

It’s human nature to anticipate the next big event. With hope or hesitancy. The hard stuff we want to hurry through and put behind us; the fun and fabulous we want to hold onto and leverage the most out of a situation.

When Moses was leading the Israelites out of Egypt, they had a long journey ahead of them. In the wilderness, there wasn’t any available food. The Israelites were moaning and groaning, demanding that Moses take them back to the place of 430 years of bondage because they at least had food. They thought he’d brought them to the wilderness to starve.

God intervened.

“Then the LORD said to Moses, ‘I will rain down bread from heaven for you. The people are to go out each day and gather enough for THAT DAY. In this way, I will test them and see whether they will follow My instructions. On the sixth day, they are to prepare what they bring in, and that is to be twice as much as they gather on the other days.’” Exodus 16:4-5. They were told to gather enough manna for each day. Some gathered a lot; some very little. Everyone had just enough.

What they ignored was that on the sixth day, they were to gather twice as much because the seventh day was a sacred day, during which no one was to work. But people, in a state of concern, went out on the seventh day to gather their manna. There wasn’t any there. The people were worried they wouldn’t have enough food, and it made them anxious. Worry takes us out of the moment.

But God. He takes care of our needs, and He makes it possible for us to be in the moment without stressing. Enjoying the moment without losing time looking ahead.

Jesus made a comment about how we need to focus on Him, not worrying about what we can’t control.

“What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving….Give your entire attention to what Go is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.”Matthew 6:31, 34.

Jumping from experience to experience, avoiding the uncomfortable, and seeking the next grand thing, can be exhausting. Being present with God in the here and now can give us more comfort and stability than we can imagine.

We need to just pause, breathe, and be aware that He’s near to us all.

10 responses to “When The Party’s Over”

  1. The kids look terrific in their costumes. I love the line, gathering candy like it’s a career. As much as I try to stay in 5e moment, I too often find myself looking ahead but looking ahead only at the next good thing coming up, not for new work to do. I suppose everybody does that to an extent and that’s why He lets us anticipate the good times. But then any time with Him is the good time.

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    1. It’s hard not to look ahead when times get rough. But I love how you think, Yoda. Every time with Him is a great time.

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      1. I have a feeling I’ll be forever known now as Yoda! 😊

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  2. Willie Torres Jr. Avatar
    Willie Torres Jr.

    Being present really matters. God provides what we need each day.

    And the kiddos look awesome in their Halloween costumes… The Baby Dragons are so cute. I’m a big Star Wars, Dragons and Pirates junkie (as you can tell by some of my post) nerd, so I loved seeing these. 🙌🎃

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    1. I love your nerdiness, Willie. And you’re right–God does provide what we need each day. He does love us lavishly.

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        Willie Torres Jr.

        Amen 🙌 Yes He Does … How Good Is He …

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  3. It’s really heavily loaded the end of year for you guys with events in October, November, and December… Halloween is not a huge thing here in Australia, and obviously no Thanksgiving. All the kids costumes were great, but I’m a fan of Star Wars. Keep pausing and breathing, best wishes, Linda xx

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    1. There’s a part of me that’s envious because you don’t have Halloween. But you’re right. One day at a time. One step at a time. Thanks for your encouragement.

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      1. ‘My pleasure. My parents wouldn’t let us participate in Halloween partly because it seemed so pagan to them, partly because they hated the message of “sure, take candy from a stranger”, but mainly because it had no connection to Australia, so was an imported festival… it’s not much better now, just an excuse for stores to sell things – BUT – the kids really do love the opportunity to dress up, so it’s slowly becoming a bigger and bigger thing here.

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  4. Sometimes dressing up is an amazing way to be something or someone else for a breath. I get the taking candy from strangers–it’s why we stick to our neighborhood, where everyone knows everyone else. It is very pagan. She’s not wrong. How’s the story coming?

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