We Need To Get It Right

The island country of Malta in the Mediterranean Sea has celebrated Christmas for centuries with people crafting what are known as Nativity Cribs, the name common years ago for the feeding box used by livestock, now called mangers.

In 2020 a competition was held, with ten of these beautiful scenes displayed at the Museum of the Bible, and it’s been hosted by this museum for the past several years. This year three of the top cribs were displayed, and John and I got to see them.

Exquisitely made with details reflecting traditional life in this region, I was stunned by their beauty and the particular features of each.

The one that caught my eye showed Mary asleep on the ground, and Joseph is watching this new Son that has just been born, his face filled with awe and wonder. Not what many nativities reflect these days.

Many of the pictures we’ve created of that first Christmas aren’t realistic according to Biblical or historical accounts.

Mary, who was in her mid-teens when she became pregnant with the Son of God, wasn’t divine but a young woman of faith. She truly loved her Lord and believed the prophecies of the Old Testament books. When the angel Gabriel appeared to her to tell her what would happen, her confusion turned to belief. She saw herself as the Lord’s beloved servant.

Mary also didn’t ride a donkey to Bethlehem from Nazareth. She and Joseph were poor; they walked everywhere–the common mode of transportation then. The chances are there were no sheep or cows in the place where Jesus was born. There are no mention of any animals at the birth.

There was no lodging for this immigrant couple, so Mary probably gave birth in a cave, of which there are many around Bethlehem. It would have been a multi-purpose space, with a blackened stone ceiling for all the fires lit in there. The manger, or feeding trough, wasn’t wood but stone with a round indentation in the middle for feed for animals.

Not the picture we’re familiar with.

The Wise Men weren’t at the birth. There is no indication that there were three of them; there were three gifts. The fact that learned scholars would travel that distance alone without associates helping them out is ridiculous. Matthew, who is the only one that shares the details of the Magi, states, “They entered the house and saw the child with His mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped Him. then they opened their treasure chest and gave Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.” (Matthew 2:11) They came after the census when everyone had left Bethlehem.

No camels the night Jesus was born.

What I love about the nativity from Malta is that Mary is exhausted and asleep. They’d walked about eighty miles from Nazareth to Bethlehem; Mary was nine months pregnant. A census was being taken, and they had to go to Bethlehem because it was Joseph’s ancestral home where he would register. After the birth–I’ve been through it six times, and I can tell you, it’s no picnic–she was tired. While she’s asleep, Joseph is in awe of this Promise that had come. The Messiah, guaranteed by God since Genesis 3:15, had come at a dark time for the salvation of the world.

How easy it is to get caught up in the picturesque scene of a holy birth, surrounded by sweet animals and admiring shepherds, magi, and a drummer boy.

The Son of God came into the world as a Baby, birthed in a dirty place, a teen-aged mom doing her best with a father not all that much older. There was no pomp and circumstance.

Jesus didn’t come to bring an easy life–He never had one. He came to give hope, forgiveness, grace, and mercy to us who need it. He became one of us to live with us and sacrifice Himself for us.

Love isn’t always pretty.

But real love is glorious.

21 responses to “We Need To Get It Right”

  1. I love this crib, Dayle, and your words about the reality of our world. I’ve been talking quite recently a bit with one of my daughters about how our “fairy tale” versions of life give unrealistic expectations and no help or perspective to deal with real-life challenges. Your message is right on – again. 💛 Wishing you a blessed holiday season with family and friends.

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    1. Aw, Ter, I’m grateful for your kind words. And the truth of how we make life a fairy tale to make it bearable and hopeful. I want Christmas to be real for our whole family, to be a reminder that we live in the real, the here and now, and value what the Lord is doing, whether it’s what we want or not. Merry Christmas, my dear friend. May you and yours find the peace and joy of Jesus this season and always. Love you!

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  2. So true, my friend. I’m not sure where some of our nativity concepts came from. Many of them are not in line with customs of the time. It is important and fascinating to research how it might have been. But the main thing we need to get right is why he came. And never lose our wonder and awe of that!!

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    1. Absolutely, my friend. If we don’t get that part right, that He came humbly as a Baby in human form to die as a Man in our place to save us from the penalty of death we miss out on why Christmas is all that it is. Merry and blessed Christmas, Sheila, to you and your whole family!

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  3. Thanks for this rendition of the story. Sounds a bit more realistic. Let me take this opportunity to thank you by wishing you all the blessings of Christmas 🎄 to you and your big family! Thank you for your prayers for my husband and me when he had his surgery. Every blessing to you all for the new year!🎄🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

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    1. El, you are a friend I’ve never met face to face, a woman I respect and admire, and a person who has great value to me–and the Lord. May you and Thomas experience joy, peace, and hope this Christmas season and all year. And may you be reminded of how significant you are every day!

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      1. Dayle, Thank you very much but it applies more to you than to someone like me. But thank you!! All the blessings of Christmas to you all!!🎄🎄🙏🏽🙏🏽😍

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  4. Wow. That is a beautiful Nativity scene. How thrilling it must have been to scene the winning scenes in person. Even without the picture, your words painted a beautiful one. It sounds like you got it right! Merry Christmas dear friend

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    1. Thanks, dear Michael. I so wish we could meet up in person, to laugh together and enjoy a chat. Heaven will be awesome. May your Christmas–and every day–be filled with His awe and wonder and a deep sense of how beloved you are.

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      1. Thank You Dayle. And always the same wishes for you.
        And who knows, we may need maybe someday before Heaven

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  5. That would be a treat of incredible substance, a joy that would be amazing. Merry Christmas, my friend.

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  6. Daylio, you captured such a wonderful reality that so often gets missed in our glittery, social media world. Thanks.

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    1. Steverino, you are a man of wisdom and grace, and I do appreciate your kind words. I miss your writing, however. You give such wonderful insights that always help me! Keep on, bro!

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  7. Real love is glorious!! Thank you for this blog. Beautiful!!

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    1. Your kindness and encouragement never cease to be a balm to my soul! Thanks, Katers. God’s love is absolutely glorious!

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  8. God’s love is absolutely glorious!

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    1. What will it take to really receive it well? That’s my dilemma!

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      1. To really believe it and receive it–is my dilemma!! 🙂

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  9. Dayle–I found your reflections on the birth of Jesus very appropriate, as well as realistic. On Christmas morning, I read that part to our gathered family (all but Nathan, who was still in NM), during our final advent time. Thanks for your blog–I always read it, ‘though I seldom comment, and I’ve passed several of your articles on to friends. When I read your blogs, I almost feel like I’m there, enjoying the moment with you and your family!

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    1. Oh, my dear friend, thanks so much for your kind words and your support. This is one more reason why I’m looking forward to heaven–time won’t be an issue, and we’ll have the chance to talk and enjoy one another’s company endlessly!

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