New Names Don’t Change Old Issues

Working with emerging leaders in a variety of countries around the world, our daughter, Tiffany, and her family spent time in Columbia recently. Meeting new people was amazing.

Seeing new sights was also incredible.

While in Bogota, they came across a plaza surrounded by old buildings, Bolivar Square, that attracted tourists and locals alike. It had been used for circus acts, public markets, and bullfights.

And a plethora of pigeons.

Brooklyn, Mason, and Nolan were entranced by the spectacle–they called it a pigeon farm. They believed that someone somehow was raising pigeons for goodness knows what reason.

My dad used to call pigeons sky rats. Nasty critters who’d make a mess of anywhere they were, always looking for food, willing to eat anything, and being a general annoyance,

The kids didn’t think that way. They saw them as fun and friendly. The pigeons weren’t afraid of them; on the contrary, they hoped the kids would provide food.

What others saw as a bother, the kids saw as enchanting. Most saw the filth the pigeons left behind. The kids knelt in it to get closer to the birds, not caring about the grossness of the pavement.

Perspective is an amazing thing.

When I look at my life, it’s easier to see the mistakes and the problems. They glare at me, like sky rats waiting to drop their disgust at my feet. But my perspective is greatly impacted by my circumstances, and when things are good, I see the hope and blessing of my life.

When the challenges rear up their heads, and they will, it’s easier to see the faults and blunders that I constantly fall into.

Those are life companions for everybody.

Our perspectives are too often like peering at our reflection through a cracked mirror; nothing is clear. Our brokenness affects how we look at life–our outlook reflects what fills our hearts.

The apostle Paul reminded us that God’s grace toward us can change how we experience life.

“Even though on the outside it often looks like things are falling apart on us, on the inside, where God is making new life, not a day goes by without His unfolding grace. These hard times are small potatoes compared to the coming good times, the lavish celebration prepared for us. There’s far more here than meets the eye. the things we see now are here today, gone tomorrow. But the things we can’t see now will last forever.” 2 Corinthians 4:16b-18

We don’t have to focus and obsess about all the wrong and hard that’s happening now. It will be that way as long as we live. Instead we can anchor our hope on what God has promised–eternal hope, peace, and joy with Him.

The kids could see past the mess the pigeons made and saw the wonder of so many birds gathered for their pleasure.

Mess will happen. Daily.

Choose to lift your eyes to what can be true if you invite God’s love into your life.

Sky rats can destroy peace and contentment.

God can provide it.

15 responses to “New Names Don’t Change Old Issues”

  1. Great reminder! Well needed advice! Thank you and have a blessed day!

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    1. Oh, Barbie, your name popping up always brings me such joy. Hug Ken for me!

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  2. I love the children’s joy in being with the birds! Such a good reminder that we can find beauty anywhere if we are curious and open to things outside of our norms (and can ignore a little gross and dirty). We always called seagulls “sky rats” because they would steal the hotdog out of our bun when we were walking on the boardwalk!

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    1. I think God made a multitude of sky rats. I’ve had an entire lunch for six–because I was nuts enough to take a brown paper bag–be carried away by those gull sky rats. I, too, love the delight of children over the birds–so carefree and seeing what they see. I want to live like that–not always seeing the yuck, but holding tight to the awe and wonder.

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  3. You are so right about our ability to see hope and blessings when things are good and concentrating on our blunders when challenges are plentiful. Wouldn’t it be so much easier in life if we could reverse that. I love the passage you chose. Two things stand out for me are, “Not a day goes by without His unfolding grace,” and “the things we can’t see now will last forever.” Both reminders why to see hope all the time. Thank you Dayle for some good hopeful thinking today.

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    1. I’m writing where I am, Michael. These are the things I’m dealing with, right now and always. Thanks for your kind words. We’re all on a journey. I just want to value it as much as I can.

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      1. I pray your journey is full of joy and free of detours. You take the bumps out of so many others’ journeys. Thank you for your insightful words and calming or essence here.

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    2. My dear friend, your words mean more than you know. It makes me think of how fun heaven will be when we can spend time with those we never get to see here. It’ll be a hoot and a holler.

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      1. I always did like a good party!

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  4. Yes, thank you, Dayle, for your helpful, hopeful reminders. A friend of mine calls them flying rats. I remember liking them as a child. We have to become as a children to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Unlike you, I cannot quote scripture–nor have your astounding faith! I am trying my best with what I have to work with. And that includes my beliefs but I have nothing but admiration for yours. God bless you!

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    1. Oh, my dear El, I’ve been reading and studying the Bible for years–and the reality is it doesn’t always stick with me. Sometimes I do it out of duty, sometimes out of a deep desire to know Jesus better. It’s all a journey. It’s like any relationship–a little time and attention with the Lord. I’m a messy, broken person just like everyone else. I’m just delighted I know for sure that I’m eternally loved and valued. You matter, El.

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  5. Thanks for your “confession”. And for your certainty of faith. You don’t seem a messy, broken person but maybe that’s just from my perspective. Anyhow I appreciate your messages!!

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  6. Dayle–my daughter-in-law’s mother is from Columbia, so this piece had special relevance for me. Thank you for helping us to visualize through your stories the wisdom God has entrusted to you. What a gift!!

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    1. It’s indeed a small world. We’re all connected in some amazingly holy way. Again, your words have brought a smile to my face and joy to my heart.

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